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What Do Others Think Of You?

What others think of you is none of your business. The only thing that is important is what you think of yourself.
~ Dr. Angela Kowitz Orobko

What makes us wonder what others think of us? Is it our need to be loved? Is it the fear of being alone? The ironic thing about it, we attract loved ones into our lives when we can let go of the concern of how others think of us. We can relax and be ourselves. People enjoy being around other people who are confident and not concerned about what others think of them, which ultimately invites gossip….”did you know he said this about you; and, she thinks this about you?”

Oh, sure, who doesn’t enjoy getting praise and compliments, but, does it really matter what others think of you? As long as you are true to your character, your talents, your passions, then the opinions of others does NOT matter. Simply be genuine, authentic and honest with yourself. Be the best you know how to be. Do what you love and delight in your being. The only important thing is how you think about yourself, your level of confidence and your self-esteem. Furthermore, after all is said and done, you are the one who has to live with yourself. It is your life. Enjoy it.


Life is more joyful when you can bend and detach yourself from specific outcomes.
~Dr. Angela Kowitz Orobko

I had to be very flexible today and it was not easy. In fact, I was quite upset until I was able to detach myself and bend. I had to look at my challenge with fresh eyes. Only then was I able to see many possible solutions and release the negative feelings I was experiencing.

It was one of those days when nothing seemed to work; but, after assessing the situation, I was able to resolve it. It is not the outcome I expected, but it is satisfactory. Everything that happens in our lives, happens for a reason. We will not see it until after the situation and other outcomes have come to pass.

I can breathe easier, now; and, I am more joyful than I was earlier. By allowing ourselves to be flexible, bend and detach ourselves from specific outcomes, we will be able to move through life easier and happier.

You are… (Dr. Angi’s Law #2)

Dr. Angi’s Law #2

You are always exactly where you need to be…so relax (and enjoy)! ~ Dr. Angela Kowitz Orobko

No matter where you are, you are exactly where you need to be. Enjoy and delight in the present moment. Do not try to rush. Savor the wonders of the moment. Embrace the negative with the positive because the negative is simply preparing you for better and more wondrous moments. Be aware of how you are right now. Invite positive thoughts and count your blessings. Think of all the things in your life that are wonderful and be grateful. Fill your heart with appreciation for all the loved ones in your life and all those things that bring joy to your heart and comfort your physical being. You are exactly where you need to be.

…It will! (Dr. Angi’s Law #1)

Dr. Angi’s Law #1

If you decide that everything is going to turn out for the BEST, it WILL! ~ Dr. Angela Kowitz Orobko

Outcomes are what we make through the decisions we make and how we choose to act/react. If we decide it is going to be for the best, then, of course, it will. You may not always win or succeed; however, you can choose to believe that it was for the best. Right? And, what you decide to do next will demonstrate your character. Will you persevere? Will you rise to the occasion? Will you allow the “setback” to challenge you to try harder and/or change tactics? Failure is not option if you choose it not to be. If you decide that everything is going to turn out for the best, it will!

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