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I am so grateful it is Friday! It has been a long week! I am ready for the weekend. How do you plan to recharge your batteries?

I am going to enjoy friends and nature. There are a few events I plan to attend both sad and happy events. The circle of life are filled with these. This weekend it is my turn to shoulder the pain of a friend who lost her mother, as well as to celebrate with other friends who are confirming their faith. I also plan to get in some self-nurturing time, where I will go out and walk outdoors. This will be my opportunity to reconnect with myself and nature. During these rejuvenating walks, I use these peaceful moments for prayer and mediation. This will be a bittersweet weekend.

 

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Bare Necessities!

When we take care of our bare necessities…nutrition, fitness, rest and engaging activities, then we are re-energized and inspired to nurture others.
~ Dr. Angela Kowitz Orobko

I was able to truly take care of myself today, especially in the area of resting. I have been going and going and going like the Energizer bunny. Recharging my batteries did wonders for me today!

Now I feel like I can take on my tasks with a blissful heart and move forward in all my projects. It feels great. Are you taking care of your bare necessities?  How is your nutritional intake? Are you getting in some fitness training? Are you getting enough sleep? What engaging activities are inspiring you? Sometimes it is good to check-in with yourself and make certain you are getting everything you need.

Tomorrow is the kick-off to another school year for our grade-school aged children. Some have already started school. This is a fabulous time to re-evaluate ourselves and our families. May it be a blessed year for all our loved ones in the school systems. May it be filled with wonderful and engaging activities that will inspire our children to be the best they can be. I know our God will watch over the children and all those involved in their lives, and be there for them as they are receptive.

Have you been KEEPING your New Year’s Resolution?

RESOLVE…DETERMINATION…PERSEVERANCE…

COURAGE…FAITH…INTENTION…DREAMS…VISION…

TRANSFORMATION…GOALS…CHANGE…FOLLOW THROUGH….

Have you been KEEPING your New Year’s Resolution?

First of all what are resolutions? Resolutions are those decisions you make that you wish to follow through. I resolve…solve again? It is making a firm intention or a determination; it is a formal expression of opinion or intention. Let us work with the definition that involves the word intention. When you made your intention for the year…

1. Were you specific; did you delineate? Instead of saying I will be fit in 2012, define how; for example: I will add 10 more minutes of activity a day and eat more fruits and vegetables instead of white breads and pasta; instead of saying I want to write more this year or I want to write a book this year, set out a plan of writing 3 to 5 pages a day.

2. Have you been taking small, baby steps and/or five-minute starts? For example: taking 5 minutes to plan a meal or to write a paragraph or to walk around your home to get in a little activity.

3. Did you visualize your end result? Such as visualizing yourself fitting into elegant outfit or holding a finished product.

4. Did  you seek help or support? For example: Join a fitness club or program; get a writing coach; or find good writing prompts.

5. Did you get a buddy to keep you on track? For example: A fitness witness or scribe tribe who will keep you accountable.

6. Did you reflect often as we are doing now? Look back on the progress you have made and the accomplishments through the year (graph your progress). Yes there may be moments where you slip up or do not follow through; but, the overall sense of accomplishment is there. You are making the effort. And it is never too late to get back on the wagon.

7. Have you celebrated your mini-victories. Be sure to pat yourself on the back for each day you are moving towards your goal and intention for the year.

September 1st is on Saturday; a great day to reexamine your intentions and reactivate your plans to get to your end-of-the-year goals. 4 months left in the year, that is 122 days plus the four days more days left in this month. Break it down into bite-sized, easy to swallow chunks. Some progress is better than none! Yes, you can follow through on your intentions. You will succeed!

Rest

Rest is essential when you are tired; give into your desire for a break or a nap.  You will be doing others a favor. ~ Dr. Angela Kowitz Orobko

Everyone I know gets crabby or ill-spirited when they are tired. It would be best that these people do the rest of us a favor and take a break or possibly take a nap. Resting is a mood lifter and helps us to maintain our positive energy and it lowers our blood pressure. I would rather have quality time with my loved ones who took time to take care of themselves and relaxed a bit more. Wouldn’t you?

It seems during the summer months we are all so active, engaged in many outdoor events. We are all extremely busy making the most of the long days we have! In combination with all the extra activity, many of us are experiencing extreme heat where we live. All this zap our energy. In nature, animals rest during the heat of the day. It is during these times that we really need to slow down, grab a cold refreshment and take a break. If possible, build a nap into our routine. We need to give ourselves permission to take a break. A little rest goes a long way and it will make everyone happier!

Stretch

The first thing we do (or should do) in the morning after a good sleep is to stretch ourselves, extend our bodies and muscles in an outward direction. This helps us to increase our circulation and warm up our body. Continued deliberate stretching helps us to become more limber and flexible.

Stretching our minds can have a similar effect. By extending our thoughts and working through various challenges, like trying something new, reading something a bit more challenging, working through a complicated project or problem or any number of ways that require us to brainstorm, analyze, and think critically is giving our minds an opportunity to stretch and extend its capabilities.

The more we stretch or reach with our minds the more ideas that seem to flow. Entertaining new ideas often brings joy. How does your body feel after it has been stretched, a bit more relaxed? Stretching your mind opens up channels of possibilities when you entertain new thoughts and allow your imagination to expand outward.

Have you ever entertained the idea of other uses of various items, such as a paper clip? This is a simple and easy way to expand and stretch your mind. I enjoy stretching myself as an artist and writer by trying new techniques and introducing different materials to my art and writing that could easily be overlooked by traditionalists, such as using old squashed blueberries as a coloring medium, using junk mail in a collage, or using a graphic organizer/concept map to plan my writing instead of using an outline.

What new things can you introduce into your craft? If you enjoy cooking what ingredients or techniques could you introduce or try? As an athlete, how can you kick your routine up a notch or perhaps you could try your sport in a different venue or add another element to your sport (add resistance, do it in the rain or do it the cold)? If you are a teacher, what other ways can you introduce and practice lessons with your students? Each of us have it in us to stretch ourselves, our skills and our talents. Brainstorm some ideas and then give it a try to see if it brings just a bit more joy into your day.

Self-Centered, Yes. Why Not?

I am in the center of my world. I am famous, notable, lovable, adorable and so much more. If I do not take care of myself first then how can I take care of others. Love and charity need to begin at home; and, home starts with me. 

Are you self-centered? No? Why not? How can you serve others if you are tired, drained, exhausted, hungry and sleepy? By taking care of yourself first, you will have the stamina to serve others as the best person you can be.

There is no need to apologize to nourish your body, exercise, sleep and pamper yourself now and then to recharge your mind, body and soul.  Believe it or not, in delighting yourself, you WILL delight others. You will be in a better mood and in a better place mentally and spiritually.

Put yourself in the shoes of others, would you rather be with a tired spouse, parent or other caregiver or someone who is robust, energetic and totally engaged in you? To be the best I can be for others I am proud to be self-centered! By taking care of me first, I can better take care of others. Yes! I am self-centered. 

Confidence

Why is it that some people are or seem more confident than others? Were they born that way or did they learn it? Perhaps it is a little of both; but, confidence does not have to be something only exclusive to a few. There are many ways to build self-confidence.  One way is to tell yourself that you do not have to be perfect! Most people are not looking at your perceived “bad parts” or seeking to point out your “mistakes”.

Have you ever heard of the expression, “fake it until you make it? “That expression simply means to smile through your fear. Pretend you are confident in yourself until you really do feel secure with yourself and your skills/talents.

You can also practice those skills/talents with which you feel insecure. Practice builds confidence. Here are some simple steps on how you can build your self-confidence:

1. Make a list of all the things you fear doing but want to do or try.

2. Pick one, one that you feel would be easy to do or try.

3. Seek information on how to do it. See how others do it or tried it. You Tube is phenomenal for tutorials.

4. Try it and then do it, over and over again.

5. Repeat steps 2 through 4 until you complete the list.

But suppose you feel you are not physically attractive, how do you build self-confidence. That requires positive self-talk. Step outside your self as if you were someone else looking at you. This will help you to become objective. What does this person see about you that is attractive? Perhaps it is your smile or maybe your cute freckles or perhaps it is your robust complexion. Accentuate your positives! Do you remember the song by Johnny Mercer and the Pied Pipers. This is the best verse:

You’ve got to accentuate the positive
Eliminate the negative
And latch on to the affirmative
Don’t mess with Mister In-Between

Create a list of all the positives. Eliminate all the negative self-talk. Latch on to the affirmative through daily affirmations! And, do not concern yourself with anything in-between. Yes, there are things we can change about ourselves such as our muscle tone, weight and even things like the shape of our nose; however, if you are unhappy with who you truly are, then no amount of physical exercise, weight training, dieting and/or surgery will ever make you self-confident and happy. You need to learn to be happy with the person you are; and, tell yourself that you are exactly the person you want to be.


Glorify God: Take Care of Your Body

“Do you not know that your body is a temple from God, and that you are not your own? For you have been purchased at a price. Therefore glorify God in your body.”

1 Corinthians 6:19-20 New American Standard Bible (NASB)

It is important that people take care of their bodies for many reasons. First of all by getting enough sleep, exercise and nourishing foods, people are able to fulfill the physical needs of their bodies in order to best serve (God and others). (I know I am guilty at times for not providing my body its basic needs.)

Sleep provides people with the opportunity to rejuvenate their energy levels and to process nutrition and circulate it around the body to rebuild cells in our body that people wore out through the day. While people rest and sleep the body has full opportunity to remove waste and to restore equilibrium. Yet, the first basic need people sacrifice when time is short, is sleep (or when worries prevent them from sleeping aka insomnia). Consider taking a mindful look at your schedule; are you allotting yourself enough time to sleep as well as, to unwind and relax before bedtime so you can get to sleep?

The Harvard Women’s Health Watch suggests six reasons to get enough sleep:

1. Learning and memory: Sleep helps the brain commit new information to memory through a process called memory consolidation. In studies, people who’d slept after learning a task did better on tests later.

2. Metabolism and weight: Chronic sleep deprivation may cause weight gain by affecting the way our bodies process and store carbohydrates, and by altering levels of hormones that affect our appetite.

3. Safety: Sleep debt contributes to a greater tendency to fall asleep during the daytime. These lapses may cause falls and mistakes such as medical errors, air traffic mishaps, and road accidents.

4. Mood: Sleep loss may result in irritability, impatience, inability to concentrate, and moodiness. Too little sleep can also leave you too tired to do the things you like to do.

5. Cardiovascular health: Serious sleep disorders have been linked to hypertension, increased stress hormone levels, and irregular heartbeat.

6. Disease: Sleep deprivation alters immune function, including the activity of the body’s killer cells. Keeping up with sleep may also help fight cancer.

More details on the importance of SLEEP.
Importance of sleeping in human life.

(What helps me to get enough sleep is to plan my day accordingly. I know I am not a morning person, so I my work activities around my “prime time”, which is that time of the day when I am most focused and alert. I know that if I need to be up at a certain time, I need to be in bed 8 to 9 hours prior to that appointed time. Reading in bed with low-level lighting helps me to fall off to sleep quickly. Many experts do not encourage reading, but it helps me. Each of us has an idea what works and does not work for them. Exercising right before bedtime is not a good idea as it boosts energy levels to the point where one will not be able to fall asleep.)

Exercise not only helps strengthen muscles and builds stamina in people, but it is re-energizing and a mood-lifter. As people exercise, their hearts are working a little more to circulate their blood that is carrying oxygen to every part of their body. Increased circulation in a person’s body provides the oxygen (minerals and nutrition) to all the cells (muscle, nerve, skin, and fat cells) in one’s body where energy is made via metabolism. This process lifts a person mood. People can actually go into an exercise routine a bit sluggish and tired, and ten minutes into it feel a second wind. After their exercise routine, they feel more energetic. That energy can now be used in positive ways. People will also find they are able to focus more clearly with as little as ten minutes of aerobic exercise.

Through the course of a day, people encounter various stresses, such as incessant worry over things they have little control, which can increase their heart rates and blood pressures. Exercise helps people attain a balance as the mood-lifting processes of exercise seem to ease worry. As with sleep, however, when time is short, exercise becomes less of a priority in one’s life. Exercise is often eliminated from one’s daily routine. This is unfortunate, because, it really does not have to be. With a little creativity, one can include exercise into their daily routine.

It is not too difficult to increase the amount of activity in one’s day. Here are some examples to get you thinking. Use music in the background when you work at the computer and at the end of each song, stand up and march in place for a few minutes. Use an egg-timer at work, set it for 50 minutes, and then at the end of 50 minutes, take a 10 minute break to walk and move around. Each time you take or make a phone call, get up and walk around. Use the stairs instead of the elevator and park further away from the entrance of a building. Instead of sending a memo to someone in your office building via e-mail, deliver that message in person (and if you wish, you can still follow-up with an e-mail). When possible, when running errands that are a short distance from your home (1 to 2 miles), use a bicycle or walk. As you become more and more active, you will build up your stamina and feel better. These little things may inspire you to take a Tai Chi or Zumba class once a week. Along with exercise, people need nourishment.

More on the Importance of Exercise
BBC on Healthy Living

People need a steady amount of nourishment throughout their day to fuel their bodies, starting with a generous breakfast with a balanced amount of protein, complex carbohydrates and healthy fats. How much you need consume and exactly what you need to eat will vary from person to person depending on your height, weight and medical history. Skipping meals or overeating will cause people to become unbalanced and they will feel sluggish. Over time this can cause unhealthy conditions and illness. (I find when I eat a balanced diet of protein, non-fat dairy, fresh fruit and vegetables, whole grains and a limited amount of healthy fats like olive oil, I feel energetic and satisfied. I rarely feel hungry when I consume these every 3 to 4 hours during the course of my work day. If I want an occasional treat of chocolate or ice cream, I do not deprive myself.) Balance is key when it comes to giving one’s body the proper nutrition to maintain one’s health.

Nutrition Information

Practicing self-care is not only practical to maintain/improve people’s overall physical well-being and health; but, it is also provides people with a solid foundation for their mental and spiritual well-being. It is not selfish to put your basic needs first. On the contrary, it is vital to take care of yourself in order to serve God and others.

Self-care helps us to better serve God

Imagination and Well-Being

Did you know that the imagination can be used to bring people into well-being? It is true! The procedure is simple. All people need to do is to tap into recent positive memories and re-experience them in their imaginations.

Studies have shown that by reliving your positive memories in your imagination, your body will experience all the benefits from it; however, to reap the greatest benefit from the experience, you need to use every aspect of your memory. You not only need to visualize the positive experience but also every sensation from the past positive experience.

What did you feel, hear, smell, taste and touch during that experience? If possible, evoke these positive memories using images and music. It can enhance the experience for you. Meditate or simply close your eyes as you breathe deeply and imagine being in that place where you experienced happiness, love, joy, fun and bliss. This will in turn lower your heart rate and blood pressure; furthermore, you will begin to feel the joy you experienced before.

This is similar to counting your blessings and having an attitude of gratitude, both of which are also great for your overall well-being and spirituality. When you put this practice of using your imagination to relive positive memories into your daily routine, you will see how it will positively affect you over a period of time. Consider writing about this in a journal/blog or drawing about it in your art journal to capture this practice. Imagination and well-being can go hand-in-hand; and, it can become a part of your daily self-care routine. Enjoy.

Imagination and Stress

It is difficult for people to engage their “playful” imaginations when they are stressed and/or worried, although one might argue that an overactive imagination could lead to more stress. But, the focus is usually not on anything fun. People tend to focus their imaginations and energies on all the things that need to be done and/or those things they have no control. By shifting the focus from the worry and stress to fun and joy can be as simple as closing your eyes and focusing on breathing slowly and deeply, playing upbeat music in the background and visualizing a puppy/kitten playing or a baby/child laughing.

If possible smile and laugh. According to HelpGuide, “Laughter is a powerful antidote to stress, pain, and conflict. Nothing works faster or more dependably to bring your mind and body back into balance than a good laugh. Humor lightens your burdens, inspires hopes, connects you to others, and keeps you grounded, focused, and alert.” Furthermore, “laughter relaxes the whole body. A good, hearty laugh relieves physical tension and stress, leaving your muscles relaxed for up to 45 minutes after.”

Now, as easily as your imagination can get the best of us when we imagine the worst case scenarios, we can also imagine the best case scenarios, just as easily. Dr Silvia Hartmann stated, “ANY good imagination or memory, daydream or fantasy will help stop stress, and actively RELIEVE stress, because the body can’t tell the difference between an imagined car crash or a real one…Taking your imagination onto a nice holiday, for example, even for just a few moments, is IMMENSELY stress relieving. Thinking of beautiful things, of pleasant things, of BEST CASE SCENARIOS, is also an outstanding anti-stress device.”

You have the power to imagine the negative aspects of stress away. Imagine being a carefree, happy, fluffy-white cloud squelching the overbearing sun trying to stress you with its pointy sharp rays. You can muffle your worries by imagining the best outcomes of any situation you may be experiencing and you can engage your imagination in happy thoughts like butterfly dancing or children running around and playing.

You have control of your thoughts, imagination and your reactions to most outside forces that happen upon you. Give yourself permission to use your playful (and powerful) imagination to deflate the stress in your life. When it comes to all the things you need to do, consider the following: What is the worst thing that could happen if I put off a few things for an hour or a day? What if I took an hour for myself to relax and recharge before I do anything else? Ask yourself, what are the best possible outcomes and then start believing in them. 

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